Lessons of/from life

well, after a long time now writing a blog again. This time it is about something i've never thought about but now it seems to be a time to think on it, for it.
what actually is required to be sucessful in life?
to be true or to be clever or smart

before today i was with the first option but in todays world it doesn't matter at all. The only thing matters is "How can you keep others (especially superiors) happy."
well, thats my experience about life till now but it took me a long time to actually understamd the survival of fittest.

i'm still in doubt whether i can do it ...... following the 2nd option. and waise bhi the lessons of life are not easy to follow.

Finally......

Today is the last day....here i write my last blog under the syllabus of CDAC. The very first day when i started blogging, i felt a lot bored in choosing topics. but i made a commitment with myself. And i went for writing whatever came in mind. Really not an easy task.

Today i think..is there ant progress in my writing skills. Definitely YES. i get 2 positive effect on me of blogging.
Writing spirit came into me. and
I started thinking about good side of life.

Sometimes back, there was no mood of mine of writing blogs.....but as each week two blogs have to be written i started "copy-paste" of matter. i know that it is not right but i had to do it to submit the blogs in time. i was happy that i completed the assignment. BUT....But....there was a missing feeling inside. i don't know what but i was not feeling good. i recognize the reason and deleted almost all the "C-P" blogs. :) hmmmm.....now feeling good.

well.....the very first module is finished and no more blogging in syllabus. onlyy 16 blogs i had to submit and it is over now. but still i'll be blogging as now it seems to be part of life. certainly i'll be doin that. :)

now i could say that this is no my last blog and u'll find me here again. as till 19, i'm busy in exams and 20 will be a holiday to enjoy :) so meet u after 21.
bye bye.....

What i think the Friendship is All About....

This is the only relation which we people make after coming into this world. This relation is always full of love, trust, happiness, enjoy and much more.
According to me.....

Friendship knows no color. it sees the person inside and his/her nature.

Some people make the world special just by being in it. this is called friendship. when u r with them u care for nothing else even for urself.

The best thing to do behind a person's back is to pat it. and that's the new form of friendship. always enthusiasm words.

If you want to be loved, love and be loved. its that simple.... no!!!

Shared joy is double joy, shared sorrow is half sorrow. That's my theory and quite famous..:D

True friends not only protect you from others when something goes bad, but from yourself when you try to take blame. This ia friendship all about. U stop caring for urself when u r with ur friends.....

A true friend wants nothing more from you than the pleasure of your company.

To be rich in friends... is to be poor in nothing. that's wordings of my daddy.

Two things i do....

Sometime i become very happy. i don't know the reason but i feel very good. then i stop talking....Whenever i feel very good..i think there is no need to bring language, mind, analysis into it. There is no need to label it, because no label can define it properly.
To me the feeling of goodness is so infinite that when you call it good it become less in amount. Happines at fullest no word can describe it. When you feel for somebody, to say I love you is to make it profane. it is already made rotten, :( The word corrupts.
Just show it by your full being. Enjoy it. Let the other feel it...but don't say anything about it. :)


Some times i write Poem...Whenever i feel tired, fed up with the world. The world is too heavy, too boring, too monotonous, too repetitive, too routine and trivial. So whenever i feel this way, the best thing i could do is to do something creative and get involved in it. I will come out of it recreated, rejuvenated, throbbing with energy, thats my belief and its TRUE.
Poetry can be more recreative than sleep.... Just five minutes concentrated creation of a poem can refresh you more than eight hours of sleep....but still i prefer sleep over poetry.

Appreciate what you have ....

One day . . . a wealthy family man took his son on a trip to the country, so that his son could see how poor country people live.
They stayed one day and one night in the hut of a very humble farmer. At the end of the trip, and when they were back home,

the father asked his son, "What did you think of the trip?"

The son replied, "Very nice dad."

Then the father asked his son, "Did you notice how poor they were?"

The son replied, "Yes."

The father continued asking, "What did you learn?"

The son responded, "I learned that we have one dog in our house, and they have four.
Also, we have a fountain in our garden but they have a stream that has no end.
And we have imported lamps in our garden . . . where they have the stars!
And our garden goes to the edge of our property. But they have the entire horizon as their back yard!"

At the end of the son's reply the father was speechless.

His son then said, "Thank you dad for showing me how poor we really are."

Isn't it true that all depends on the lens you use to see life?
One can ask himself what would happen if we give thanks for what we have instead of always asking for more.
We should appreciate what you have. Wealth is all in one's point of view.

Infy Special Night........

well, i'm in cdac for last two months and untill yesterday never gone to the infy-food court. All my friends tried a lot but i denied ...... the two of my friends planned and lied 2 me. they asked me to go with them for simple walking. i agreed as after dinner i could not refuse 2 them. Then in the middle of the path they told me that they are going to infy food-court. ....... i got a little bit shock that why they want me to take there even i don't want to go there.

well my mood was a little bit down but...as i reached there it was a totally different and freshening atmosphere there. Actually i thought that there would be a "Thela"...with a patromex :D ....newys it was relly nice and from now on i'll go there atleat twice a week.

we had shakes there!!!! and it was not that costly also. food was also hygenic and tasty. from now on i can even leave dinner if somebody is givinf treat there ;)

Not original farme...but !!!

well, the things i'm writing here are true but the frame i choosed to mention them is not mine. i liked the way of representation so presenting my blog in this way.........

Four movies I would watch over and over again:
1. A walk to remember
2. The Girl Next Door
3. Pushkar
4. Artificial Intelligence

I have lived:
1. Jaipur
2. Bulandshahar
3. Bangalore
4. Mumbai

Four things I like the most:
1. Sleeping
2. Travelling (Riding and driving)
3. Photography
4. Listening to music mostly slow songs

Four things I dont like:
1. Reading books leaving Reader's Digest
2. Getting up early
3. Working on Sats and Sundays
4. Talking unneccesarily like my friend :D

Four dishes I like the most:
1. Mom made parantha and aloo ki sabzi.
2. Urad ki dal ki khchdi
3. aloo-parantha and butter or curd
4. Dal-Makhani and Naan

Places i liked the most:
1. Pushkar
2. Vaisno-Devi Mandir
3. Nandi Hills
4. Sariska in Haryana.

Four hotels/restaurants I liked the most:
1. Punzabi Dhaba, noida
2. CCD or Barista, anywhere
3. Le-Meridian Hotel
4. Doosri Manzi, Forum

Four places I wish to visit someday:
1. Switzerland
2. Australia
3. Massachussets
4. Egypt

Four things I am want to learn:
1. Cooking
2. The art of talking
3. Swimming
4. Guitar playing

Something about me !!!

I had nothing to write…huh….donno…Got tired of serious issues…So something about me!!

I want:
To go trekking…The climate is perfect…slight drizzles…cool breeze…clouds capping the peaks… (A friend rejuvenated my love for trekking…Thnx :>)
I wonder:
How my friends patiently listens to all my weird philosophies!
I am:
quiet and handsome. ;)
I like:
Lotta things…sleeping for 10 hours without feeling guilty…Reading Reader's Digest…Fighting with my friend over silly things and then making up…Listening to friends mostly and much more.
I dance:
For myself….without caring whether I look clumsy! and dance in group only.
I sing:
All the time…Life is all about music..Isn’t it? I'm not a good singer but if i love some song i'll sing it for myself.
I need:
Cell with camera.
I cry:
Ummm....When the stress is insurmountable…very rare. I laugh:24/7…I have this silly smile pasted on my face :D
I make:
I love cooking....and can make Aaloo Paranthas, Pulao, Aamlaute, and tomato soup!
I write:
Before coming to Cdac, i was not writing anything....but now i write soething about somebody and let it be a mustry only.
I confuse:
Everybody around…I love that puzzled look on their face! :)
I love:
My family…my friends…my cell....
I miss:
My childhood… every morning mom would run after me with a glass of milk…dress me up…pack my bag… wait to receive me from school…completely pamper me!!
I will:
Gift a trip to all 4 TEERTHAs to my mummy and daddy in some near future....
I believe:
in GOD and ofcourse in my decisions.
I feel good:
When friends talk about me......:)

The Trip wid Friends.....

it was 30th september, my cdac batch started the journey around 8 in morning. all my friends planned to sit together in bus, but.....sir told me to sit in Cab ans there was noone of my group. however it was 2 hr journey at all out of which i spent 1hr in cab. however that aws not that boring time and i enjoyed there too but...my wish was to go in bus only, and at last it came true. but all there in bus have already planned to make "Bakara" of me. newys it was a very good experience ...we played Truth & Dare in the bus and i was asked to propose a cute girl there. ;)

well, the journey lasts and we reached the destination "The Nandi Hills". it is the place where Tipu Sultan used to punish rebels and others. it is actually a sucide point. 15000ft above sea level.

It was my fast that day and i started wid cucumburs there. delicious meal for any time... i enjoyed a lot there. There was some temples and the main thing i noticed there was that buildings were no tortured or modified. evertything was original.....there after we reached the exact point so called the suicide point. there were some rocks put there for safety reasons, and it was written DANGER over there to mark the point.

it was over around in 3 hrs and how the time passed i really didnot know. it was such a nice journey i'll remember my whole life. there are more things to say but time is less to tell all those here in limited time. some other day....Nandi Hills is really nice place to visit and certainly i'll again go there some day in future.

My Source of Inspiration.......

I tell u about a person who devoted his life, his interests for the goodness of his family. He is non other than my Daddy. "My Daddy Strongest !!" this feeling still comes in my mind. Since last 8yrs he's in UAE, only for his family...mummy, my bro and ofcourse me. It is really very tough to make an idea how tough his life actually is..!! Away from his family for such a long time.

i was in 10th when he went there. i was really not having an idea where and for how much time he is going. i missed him a lot for next three yrs till i got admission in B.tech. and stayed in hostel. It was the very first week in hostel, and i was feeling a lot home-sickness. Now i was getting the idea of daddy's condition there. i could go home any time but he would come only after 2yrs only for 2 months.

Time passed..and i got admission here in C-DAC 3days away from home. now, even i could not go home whenever i want. This is the actual time when i'm really getting a little idea of his Condition there in UAE.

i would like to be, like him someday, and the sacrifice he did and still doing for us is really great.